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friends

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 7:36 am
by Gill
Do you have a friend who you do not speak to anymore, because of something that happened between the two of you? Do you miss them, wish things were different?

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 7:38 am
by legend
i guess things change.
if u could turn back the clock eh?
but lifes not like that sadly.

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 7:38 am
by Gill
legend wrote:i guess things change.
if u could turn back the clock eh?
but lifes not like that sadly.


No it's not. Shame tho' :(

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 8:17 am
by Kathy
Thre was smeone I used to chat to on another site. She was barmy :biggrin:

Miss her fariy stories.

Re: friends

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:14 pm
by haysi
Gill wrote:Do you have a friend who you do not speak to anymore, because of something that happened between the two of you? Do you miss them, wish things were different?


I sometimes miss friends that I no longer see. usually after too many vino collapsos. :(

Ive learned recently that I cant make people 'like me' and they have fallen out with me for their reasons. Regardless of if I agree with them or not.

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 2:17 pm
by Damsel
I have someone I miss and the thing that bothered me most was it was not really something that I did...it was others who got between us and stirred the pot...and created a huge mess.

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:37 pm
by legend
damsel, people go their own way in life.
sometimes its cos they want to,sometimes cos theyre lazy and its easier to just give up ,other times its a misguided idea of security.
in the end they do it because they want to and i think they try to lessen the blame/pain caused by looking for an easy excuse.
but what do i know?
im just a man eh. :(

Re: friends

PostPosted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 6:09 am
by Silke
Gill wrote:Do you have a friend who you do not speak to anymore, because of something that happened between the two of you? Do you miss them, wish things were different?


Yes, no and no.

anything that happens which is serious enugh to end an relationship ends lots of things. I don't miss the falsehood, I don't miss hoping my friend wouldn't turn again. If I wish things diffrent it must be atuneing one of ours personality to be a better fit, and I can't bring myself to change people that much.

...and I don't wish the experience away either. I've learned, I'm stronger and I problably would have run into someone like that sometime anyway. Better do it when you're young enugh to learn without getting bitter and shut down

PostPosted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 7:15 am
by lpg
I can only thnk of one person that would fit those criteria. And no. I do not miss him nor do I wish things were different. What's over is over. I'm cool with that.

Re: friends

PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 7:19 am
by Sandra
Gill wrote:Do you have a friend who you do not speak to anymore, because of something that happened between the two of you? Do you miss them, wish things were different?


I do and I miss them very much and wish everyday things could be different :( but you can't make people talk to you can you, so I just get on with it :D

PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 8:21 am
by legend
yup.
theyll wake up one day and realise the mistake they made.
more fool them i say :evil:

PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 4:24 pm
by forgotten1
ther are a few, yes. mostly they just "disappear, move whatever" miss some of them a lot but life moves on and new people come and go

PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:11 pm
by legend
sometimes i think you can lose touch for the daftest and most insignificant of reasons :(

PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 11:20 pm
by Bedford
Remember, "Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine".

PostPosted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 4:55 pm
by legend
im of the attitude if someone really loves you or really cares,they will get in touch.
if they dont then its just a sign ,and probably a realisation on their part that they were wasting both your time and theirs.
time will tell is a saying i believe holds true.
many times in my life it has told.
it can be a shock or a great upset.
but its better to know the truth :neutral:

PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 8:06 am
by Gill
legend wrote:im of the attitude if someone really loves you or really cares,they will get in touch.
if they dont then its just a sign ,and probably a realisation on their part that they were wasting both your time and theirs.
time will tell is a saying i believe holds true.
many times in my life it has told.
it can be a shock or a great upset.
but its better to know the truth :neutral:




Ain't that the truth!! :neutral:

Re: friends

PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 9:06 am
by Yogi
Gill wrote:Do you have a friend who you do not speak to anymore, because of something that happened between the two of you? Do you miss them, wish things were different?


Yes, yes, and yes.

PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 9:17 am
by angel
yes. in a time where i really needed a friend to talk to and get support from he thought his new computergame was more important, and even though i called him in tears and stressed that i needed a friend NOW, he still told me to call back the day after, when he was done playing his game.
i never called him again.

this was a guiy that i got out of bed for in the middle of the night to help him, i have driven 1000s of km's for him when he didn't have a car, i helped him when he had no money.

PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 9:37 am
by haysi
Friends suck dont they :(

well if you are lucky they do :biggrin:

kidding Gill, I know that you value all your friendships and am sad if you are sad

Hx

PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 10:03 pm
by mdlvettechie
I have several, one I miss (we really just have new seperate lives, she went into the air force, got married, had 2 kids, lives across the country now), the other 2...well...1 we just grew apart- no fight nothing like that, the other one, I dont miss, she is not a good person, and I couldnt be frriends with her anymore.