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If you did something to upset one of your bestest friends in

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the whole wild world.

how would you make it up to them?

Serious question.
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Talk to your friend, apologise for whatever it was you done, and if it's meant to be it will all work out. :D

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Exactly what Gill just said. Explain, apologise, grovel, bribe, offer to dig his/her swimming pool at night, whatever it took. If that fails, then maybe the friendship wasn't too strong in the first place.

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I would apologize over and over and beg for forgiveness and then I'd do something really sweet and kind to make it up to them.

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what I would do differs extreamly on what I had done.

I would apologize of course. I would try to explain how it happend and I would take the blame. There is nothing as annoing as a friend comming to ask forgiveness for something who doesn´t admitt blame. I would never promise gold and green forests though, never at such a time promise more than you can keep. Admitt iresponesbility, stupidity, lack of thought, selfishness... whatever put you in that mess.
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How long have they been a friend? If for more than a couple of weeks they MUSY know the complex identity that is Haysi! They should accept you 'wartzanall' or they are not the 'bestest friend in the etc. etc. Just carry on your relationship as if everything was normal! WHAT AM I SAYING? You NORMAL! :crazy: Give em time. You have your good points. :tongue:
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Legion wrote:How long have they been a friend? If for more than a couple of weeks they MUSY know the complex identity that is Haysi! They should accept you 'wartzanall' or they are not the 'bestest friend in the etc. etc. Just carry on your relationship as if everything was normal! WHAT AM I SAYING? You NORMAL! :crazy: Give em time. You have your good points. :tongue:



Ah thank you!

No, it was a very dear friend. I am 'over' the concept of upsetting people that I dont really know.
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I knowest not - more what to say
This mortal blow to soften
Unless - like Lore - thou considereth
A change - of thine socks - more often! :tongue:

You'll be O.K. Kiddo - You are valuable & unique!

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:tongue: mmmm I fear we have an imposter in our midst! Who are you Sir and what have you done with 'Legion'..


:wink: Hx
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There haysi - I've got you doing a bit of semi soul searching by over complimenting you. :oops:

Also - everyone knows that Legion is another alias of Yogi's. :evil:

Everyone did not know about Lore's feet - but hey - that's show biz. :biggrin:

I guess this should have been in the rumours section but as the guv'nor turns a blind eye when he feels mean :moon: - then I am revolting :violin:
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yes you are revolting :lol:













Och you know I am only kidding.
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DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHH

You got me there Hays :biggrin:
& I thought that I was being sooooooooo intelligent.

I received an e mail from Alixx. C.S. has probs - it's not just Brits not able to get into the site. I shall have to wait to check my proposals of marriage etc :idea:
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I dont bother much with CS...and I used to be the Queen as well :wink:

This site is much nicer.

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I could not agree more - but there are a few friends that I have made who steadfastly remain loyal to Gossy but - strangely - adore me :biggrin:

Where's that Strumpet Gill - is she O.K.
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Gill is not very well just now.

(I checked with my sis and she said it was ok to post this.)

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Very sorry to hear that - Give her my regards & I hope that she gets fit & well soon. :love:

I'm gonna keep Legion tied up for a bit longer & completely ruin his rep & cred :biggrin:

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Legion wrote:Very sorry to hear that - Give her my regards & I hope that she gets fit & well soon. :love:

I'm gonna keep Legion tied up for a bit longer & completely ruin his rep & cred :biggrin:

Yogi x


I will tell her when I see her.

And as for you kidding on that you are Yogi....you cant kid a kidder MR!

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[quote="haysi"][quote="Legion"]Very sorry to hear that - Give her my regards & I hope that she gets fit & well soon. :love:

This will bring a smile to gills face thanks, she will be home tomorrow :D

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YAY Gill will be home...but does that mean you are staying up there again?

I am cooking!!!!!

Well, I am making soup.....but I put the wrong ring on :oops:

We are still insured arent we?

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Noooooooooooo step away from the cooker delia :lol:

yes we're insured but i'll be down the road soon as debs is coming here

behave till then :confused:

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